Questions
The things people actually ask.
How is this different from every other dating app?
Most apps optimise for how long you stay on them. That means photo-first browsing, engineered scarcity, and a hidden desirability score deciding who you're allowed to see. We optimise for you leaving — matched. The Matchprint puts substance first, shows you the reasoning behind every score, and treats your dealbreakers as absolute.
Is the assessment really twenty minutes?
About that, and you can pause and resume any time. It's twelve dimensions with adjustable importance weights. We'd rather ask you enough questions to be genuinely useful than get you swiping in ninety seconds.
Who can see my answers?
Nobody sees your raw answers — not other members, not advertisers, not our own staff in the ordinary course of business. Matches see compatibility results and the plain-language explanation behind them. Your individual responses stay yours.
What does "verified" actually mean here?
It means a specific, dated check was completed by an independent provider — nothing more and nothing less. An identity badge means an identity document was confirmed on that date. It is not a character reference and it is emphatically not a promise that someone is safe. We will never imply otherwise, because that implication gets people hurt.
Is verification required?
No. Every verification is optional and member-controlled. You choose what to verify and who sees it. You can also filter to see only members who've verified particular things — that choice runs both ways.
Is it free?
Core membership is free, supported by clearly-labelled sponsorships from brands in broad categories like dining and travel. Some verifications carry the provider's own cost. We'll always show you the price before anything is charged.
Who is behind RealMatchForMe?
A team with a professional background in identity and background investigation — which is precisely why our verification claims are narrow, dated and carefully worded rather than sweeping. We know what these checks can and cannot tell you.
When does it launch?
The full platform is in development now. Join the waitlist and you'll get early access, plus the chance to shape the assessment before it's finalised.